Last July Tony and I separated. The day that he moved out
was very surreal for me, and I had a lot of anger and pain around the way the separation happened. It took
some time to adjust to my new life. That is when I sought therapy and found Debra who encouraged me to attend the recovery group for codependents. I found the support I needed and my new life
started to have a peace about it; this was very needed. The feeling that
prevailed for me in those weeks was freedom. There had been an oppressive
spirit in my home for a very long time. It was a type of bondage that kept me
from being authentically me. Perhaps this is why I am so committed to being
authentic now.
I had purchased Zac Brown’s Uncaged EP and enjoyed every
song. The one song that initially was a bit much for me (my least favorite) ended up becoming my
favorite. That's so true of many things in life, btw. I've learned to be less harsh and definitive in my judgments and opinions for this reason. When I really listened to the lyrics, there was something strong that resonated with me. The rhythm builds in momentum and I have this heart-bursting-through feeling that coincides with the crescendo within the song. I feel like the caged bird coming forth, no longer constrained by the walls confining her.
Uncaged by Zac Brown
Uncaged by Zac Brown
Gonna drift to the great wide open
Gonna set my spirit free
Won’t stop til I reach the ocean
Gonna break these chains holding me
Uncaged
Gonna swim in the coldest river
Gonna drink from a mountain spring
Deep in the land of the great wide open
And let the water roll all over me
Uncaged
I wanna swim in the sunshine
And every day find a way to face my fears
I wanna get in the wind
Gonna take every chance I’m given
Feel the wind through the open plains
Freedom is gift, get given
So chase the sunset highway down
You gotta get uncaged
I can’t count the number of times I played that song. It is
as if my soul had broken free from the years of hopelessness and I had such a
new lease on life. I started dreaming again. I started living again. The frozen feelings that had become a part of me started to melt. I was coming out of a
bleak fog that had settled into my home, into my life, and which I had allowed
to discolor my vision and purpose.
I was now experiencing the exuberance for life. I wasn't sure what the next months would have in store for me, but for the time being I embraced the life that had just been given to me. I was dreaming again and wanted to feel from the depths of my soul. I'm Gonna take every chance I'm given...freedom is a gift, get given!
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